Things we cant say.....

Well this is prob going to be one of the only serious posts I will ever do....

Just a little dabble into the events of peoples lives and things they have to do and go through to be the people they want to be,,,

Do you think sometimes we are a little too hard on ourselves??? We might be worried about that other people think of us, but in all reality we are our own worst enemies?? We are the ones who judge ourselves harsher than anyone?

Why is it we can be So worried and loose sleep about what other people might think about us when there are more terrible things going on in the world like war, poverty, death, hunger etc.... and sometimes all we can think about is our own image...

Isn’t it funny that the things in our lives that usually define who we are as a person are usually the bad and negative things and how we handle them???
How we respond and react to something terrible happening to either a partner, family member, friend or even ourselves...

Kinda like in a relationship...we tend to remember all the bad events and seem to forget and overlook the positive and fantastic ones sometimes...

Sometimes we really take for granted the amazing and wonderful things we have in our lives... like Friends... Family.... Nature... Laughter... Feeling...

Can you imagine what it would be like if we couldn’t feel?? Happiness.. Sadness.. and just be mellow all our lives...

Something’s in our lives we choose to do for other people instead of ourselves... but if we did do them for ourselves, would this be considered selfishness??? or selflessness??

It can kinda be a loose loose situation....

We sometimes loose sight of the bigger picture and the fact that we are living OUR lives and not ANYONE elses... and what we do in the course of our lifetime is what we want and what we think is right for that particular time in our life... and if anyone else judges that... why should we care?? Because thats what has made us happy at the time... and we can only do our best to live a moral and content life...

Is'nt it funny the people in our lives who mean the most and who have the biggest impact are usually not necessarily our family?? And that our friends and the people we have grown up with usually have the biggest influence over our lives??? Sometimes in a good way, and sometimes in a bad way....

Some of us are lucky enough to have the best people EVER as friends and truly value and love them deeply... where as others are not so lucky and sadly get lead down a path that can lead to our demise....

I must say I am defiantly one of the lucky ones and am very thankful for that! They keep me sane and help me out when having a blonde moments... Not going to mention names but they know who they are!! :)

(if they decided to read this far down in this very painful post!! :P )

Well Im done for now.... Chin up smile and know things could always be worse and we are pretty lucky!!

xoxo